Just a few days back I remember being so upset, miserable and what not with the way things were turning out to be with that reeeeaaallly good friend who is no longer that close and today we met like nothing ever happened. It was just the way it used to be.
The underlying fact being that life just goes on. The most unexpected of things happen, people leave, people come back, you leave, you meet new people ..whatever happens, life just goes on and all you can do is get adjusted to the changing situations. More importantly, know that come what may, you will get used to it how much ever you hate it in the beginning.
And you know why this theory is so awesome? That's because it saves you from getting scared of what will happen in the future. Because let's face it, when has our life turned out exactly as planned.
I couldn't imagine life without her and the last two months showed me that I can be just fine without her. That is what was needed and now we're totally cool with each other. No explanations, nothing. It just happened and that's all.
So, whether its friendship or those failed relationships or just anything at all that moves you out of your comfort zone, it helps to know you'll be just fine at the end.
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Happy Diwali all :)
For a change, I won't complain about the crackers this time.
I shall just do my Diwali thing which is to gorge on those sweets.
The underlying fact being that life just goes on. The most unexpected of things happen, people leave, people come back, you leave, you meet new people ..whatever happens, life just goes on and all you can do is get adjusted to the changing situations. More importantly, know that come what may, you will get used to it how much ever you hate it in the beginning.
And you know why this theory is so awesome? That's because it saves you from getting scared of what will happen in the future. Because let's face it, when has our life turned out exactly as planned.
I couldn't imagine life without her and the last two months showed me that I can be just fine without her. That is what was needed and now we're totally cool with each other. No explanations, nothing. It just happened and that's all.
So, whether its friendship or those failed relationships or just anything at all that moves you out of your comfort zone, it helps to know you'll be just fine at the end.
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Happy Diwali all :)
For a change, I won't complain about the crackers this time.
I shall just do my Diwali thing which is to gorge on those sweets.
My little experience from life revolve around the same philosophy. I get it. totally. And in a few days time, you won't even miss her.
ReplyDeleteReally reassuring to hear that. Been telling myself that lately, but it seems more believable and less delusional now that you've written about it.
ReplyDelete@Serendipity: Yeah, I know I won't constantly miss her and I also know that whenever I do, nothing will stop me from just picking up the phone and get talking like we used to do!
ReplyDelete@Insignificant: That's a nice thing to say! :)
I totally agree with this post..It cudn't have been better..
ReplyDeleteWishing you a joyous Diwali and a prosperous New Yr..
Urgh. Next time you say someone doesn't belong in your life anymore, you'll be shot. :P Keep smiling.
ReplyDelete@Swats: Thank you!
ReplyDelete@Darshan: *Ouch* Haha :P
Yes, you too!
You know what? This post makes sense on so many levels, it's not even funny. And you've written it so well. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Isha! :)
ReplyDeleteMakes sense.
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